I Want Kids But My Husband Is Twice My Age - EXTREME LOVESign up or log in to share. I'm 30 and my last boyfriend was In my situation, he just hadn't been through enough life experience to handle things when it got a little rough But why a girl would lie about her age I have no idea what that's all about. Alot of my friends date younger guys and they have great relationships I don't think age is really an issue for most couples depends how bothered they are about others opinions. I think the bigger question is: Would the 25 year old girl date the 21 year old guy?
People have already given your grief for describing yourself as a 26 year old boy and caring about the opinion of an anonymous bunch of dudes on OKCupid, so I'll spare you on that front. My question is regardless of your concerns, how is anyone even going to know you are dating a 31 year old unless you tell them? Unless said women looks substantially older than 31 or you look substantially younger than 26, your age difference is unlikely to be identifiable by the general public that's making the rather generous assumption that anyone else is going to care.
I didn't marry any of them or anyone else for that matter but they -- well all but one -- were great relationships, the shortest of which lasted almost 2 years and the longest almost 8 years. I don't recall my age, or our age difference, being a factor. I primarily dated men younger than myself because those were the men that I happened to meet.
I went to grad school at 31 and most of my classmates were years younger than I was. When I got out and got my first internship, same deal. I had more in common with them then men my own age who were already well-established in their careers, etc. Most of the time we found out each others ages after we started dating and it just wasn't an issue for either of us. I'm 29 and my girlfriend is It's great!
There are lots of advantages to dating a grownup. I wouldn't trade her for a year-old for anything, especially when I remember what I was like at Also, did you read that OkCupid article, or just the comments?
Because the article, if I'm thinking of the same one you are, was about how awesome women in their 30s are, and how dumb it is that guys don't tend to date older women. And they had data to back up something women being awesome! Honey, five years is an age gap when you are a child. Five years doesn't rate as an age gap when you are an adult. I skipped to the end. This must worry you for some reason, but it shouldn't.
I remember a ton of lady-persons who were 31 at my 26 and I didn't give a rat's patoot about our respective ages. Be glad you've found someone you care about and who feels the same. I'm a 30 year old woman. I'd have no problem dating a 25 year old. As the bard said, love the one you're with. If she's OK with you, you should be too.
When I was in my early 30's, I had a short relationship with a woman in her early 20's. We weren't a good match and one of the things that stuck out to me was the difference in maturity. If you're thoughtful and mature and your are compatible, great, have a good time. You haven't even asked her out. Cart before the horse.
I hope you've worked through your previous issues. I think you need a lot more confidence and grounding, but that's just me. I'm 16 years older than my husband, we have been together for 7 years both dating and married. He chased me. I'm not a MILF or a Cougar and spent most of the early years of the relationship worrying about the age difference, it has never bothered him. You like who you like, ask her out and if she says yes I hope you both have fun.
If it becomes serious you won't care about the age difference, and if it's only a bit of fun for both of you, you might learn something about yourself and women. Forget about what people on OKCupid say, what people say online to make themselves look "cooler" rarely has any actually relationship to what they'd do if they had the chance in real life.
Also face early thirties deosn't look that much different to late 20's its not like she's got grey hair and a walking stick, no one is going to look twice. Ask her out. Are you sure that they've failed at competing? I suspect that men who date older women have realized that the only way to win at "my girlfriend is younger than yours" is not to play. Put another way, do you really want the respect of men who think this way about women?
Would it really make you feel better about yourself?
This is not enough data to say anything about you. In fact, the only thing this tells me is that you are into this particular 31 year old woman. It could, maybe, suggest that you're more into 31 year olds than other women. If you really need to be older than your lady, just wait until you're 32 and start hitting on the 31 year olds.
Ta da, problem solved. Or you could realize you're being ridiculous and ask this one out now. This is only an issue if it's made into an issue. Live your life, man. I was 27, he was A week later he turned 21 and 2 weeks after that I was It didn't last, but he's still one of my favorite people in the world. We still root for each other. And it wasn't because of our ages that it didn't work out.
But even if it was, that doesn't mean it wouldn't have been worth it. That age gap itself is fine. No question. But the fact that it concerns you and you have to ask this question says to me, pretty strongly, that you personally shouldn't date this woman. Wilson at PM on June 3, [ 2 favorites ]. My oldest brother is 12 years younger than his wife. They have been together for 37 years and are happy by all accounts. So yeah, it works. Whomever started that cougar and milf shit should die in a fire.
I have been described as an "old soul", so it's not surprising I get along well with older women. As a year old, I dated a year old. In all cases, it was two people being attracted to each other, not two numbers. Life is too. Just be open and honest, listen to both your heart and your mind, and it is hard for things to go too wrong.
Don't worry about it. My wife is 5 years older than I am. We met and knew within 3 days that we were meant for each other, and we've been married for 30 years.
Last summer I dated a woman who is nearly five years older than me. I never cared a bit about the age difference. She, on the other hand, never seemed to get over the age gap. Thus, we only lasted a couple of months. But, had she been OK with the gap as I wasthe relationship may have lasted a good bit longer.
TLDR - Age difference is only a problem if you think it is. My male fiance is younger than me, a lady! And honestly, it's normal to freak out about this stuff even if you are super-enlightened. I did. I consider myself super-feminist, but still had this idea in my head that women don't date younger men, because they're less mature, and make worse relationships. My fiance reminded me that we share the same cultural touch points. Y craze that lasted all of about five minutes?
We're very happy. That said, while it's normal to worry about it briefly, if you stick with these concerns, it might mean that there are some lingering insecurities. Yup, it's fine. I've done it at 30 and She was a little uncomfortable with the idea for the first month, worrying that maybe she was too old for me, but it turned out to be fine.
We just enjoyed the hell out of each other. Here's a good rule of thumb: Question any assumption that requires you to judge a woman negatively for being a woman and doing the same damn thing as you. In other words, either a five year age difference between consenting adults is creepy or it isn't.
The older party being a woman doesn't somehow make it wrong, that's a sexist double standard and it's bullshit. Think of it this way: do you really think there's something wrong with this women that you find attractive and whose personality you like if she happens likes you back?
Does that sound like any kind of healthy or happy way to approach a relationship? Women are people, just like you. Behave accordingly.
You've got plenty of good advice here so this is just a little story: She was 42 and he was 30 when they met at work. Not on his age as much as humanly possible anyway.
I'm 26 and dating a 19 yr old guy who absolutely worships me! Since the world is still so new to him it's fun to take him around and explore old places that I felt excited to go to when I was that age.
He reminds me of my crazy fun tenacious self and even brings it out of me! Us ladies get so caught up paying our bills and performing well at work, we forget to just have crazy stupid fun!! I suggest you all go get a younger man that hasn't been soured by life's cruel ways! Not to be blunt either but did you all forget that men peak sexually at !!!! Best sex of my life!!! I'm 50, and I've been seeing a 28 year old man for a month now.
This is not a commitment kind of relationship, and the freedom that comes from being with someone just for fun is exhilarating!
His boyish enthusiasm is like a breath of fresh air for me, and he enjoys my level of experience. Our honesty is of a level I never have experienced with other lovers- no secrets whatsoever. I know that what we have can't last forever, but it sure as hell is fun right now so I plan on going for it until it runs its course. Nice to hear your comment, I am having sex with a 30 yr old, I am almost54, he makes me feel young again, he keeps telling me he loves me I finally told him I love him, but he still wants to have sex with other women, he holds my hand kisses me, and hugs me in public.
He keeps thinking about in the future when he is a certain age and me being 23 yrs older. I want to keep seeing him, but the other women scare me. Can u give me any suggestions. I'm 23 and I'm currently dating a guy who's Much like some of the positive stories on here, we have a great relationship so far.
He's selfless, kind, thoughtful, supportive, and mature.
How Going On A Date With A Year-Old Made Me Realize I Still Need To Grow Up You long for a change in clothes and style (you're not a girl, not yet a woman), but you I even have a nephew now (look at this guy; he's such a cutie !): "I'm How old are you?" Shit. I'd have guessed There was. Im 20 dating a 25 year old - Find single man in the US with rapport. With a 25, and year-old women in their 20s and and year-old women prefer their . A 26 year old guy, dating a 31 year old woman, is it okay? It would be okay if the man was 26 and she was 21 but the other way around .. but just from looking at them, I can appreciate a good looking year old, but I.
Age does not determine your level of love anymore than going to a supermarket with no money will buy you groceries. I'm 23 to turn 24 next month, and I'm starting to date a boy who will turn 17 this year.
I really don't know what to do, I'm REALLY happy when I'm with him, he makes me feel good, and he is also happy with me, but the fact that he's still underage makes me feel so bad. What should I do? Anonymous, there's nothing particularly outrageous about what you're saying and it sounds like you should just discretely see how it goes. But if it's making you feel uncomfortable then step back from it.
Whether your love life takes you older or younger, high or Lo, our sex I had a game I liked to play with this younger guy, a hilarious invention of my in Grumpier Old Men and tell me that a year-old woman can't be hotter and who may see a year-old going to dinner with a year-old and make.
It's not an incredible age difference, to be honest. I'm a 29 year-old woman, and I just started dating a 25 year-old. I've never dated anyone younger than me, but I have to say it makes a refreshing change. He is so respectful of all of the achievements I have, sweet and very loving…he also talks me up so much to his friends as though I'm a princess I like to think it's not just because I'm older and have done more, but still….
Definitely pro dating younger. Men my age don't seem to know what they want, don't recognise what's good when they have it, or have too many hang-ups to unpack without losing your mind a little in the process!
I totally agree with you! Like my bf is 6 years younger than me but he looks older than me cause of our difference race. I agree that older men now a days don't know what they want in life or they have way to much problems to bring with them.
My bf knows exactly what he wants in life and how to achieve his goals. Hi well I am not married or anything I just am beginning to date a guy 3 years younger than me I'm 17 and he's 14 so is this bad?? I don't know how this happened it just did he treats me differently than any guy I've dated and trust me they were my age or even older. Can anybody give me an advise? Btw my parents won't agree with this relationship pleas reapond….
I don't age, at all, it is like science fiction. Everyone who meets me believes I am 18 and so when I tell them I am 28 I am laughed at, called a "liar", and told "no, you are 18". So I stopped trying to be honest about my age about a year ago and everything goes smoothly…. So he is 18 and he thinks I am I am 28….
I am seriously thinking about writing a book about the whole thing. I'm much older than the ladies who have posted here, but here we go. I'm 55, though I don't look it.
He had one groomsman who I didn't know, and before we knew who each other was, we hit it off. There was plenty of sexual tension and then I learned he was a groomsman and he found out I was his best friend's mom. Oh, dear! He is still in my life, and I love him dearly. We are excellent friends — good, good friends — but I'm a realist. When he asked me if I'd consider marriage, I had to tell him no, but not because I don't love him. I said no because I DO love him.
21 year old guy dating a 25 year old woman
Our 25 year difference might not matter now, but 20 years from now it would be a huge deal, and I could not do that to him. We do love each other, and speaking for myself, I will always love him. I love this man so much, and vice versa, that when I told him I wanted to write a book about our affair he was all for it. I'm writing what I call a trovel — it's a novel with more truth than fiction. The title is The Groomsman and I'm at about pages now. It's my testament of the greatest love I've ever felt for anyone other than my son and daughter.
It was awesome, fun, exhilarating and yes, taboo to have such a younger lover and it's priceless to have such a great friend. I am dating a 23 yr old and I am He looks older and I look younger so we "shave 10 yrs off both ends and end up with only a yr age difference.
I teach Ashtanga Yoga and he is a Break Dancer. We met dancing 6 months ago. NEVER planned to see him again. He tried to see me for two months and I finally gave in. I knew I would have no will power the chemistry was so great. Now 4 months into it he wants to marry me, move in together, be together "forever. I plan to live and work until I am plus and if he lasts to 82??? I know I am crazy… Someone needs to help me.
I feel so much love. Hi, I see you posted this back in Are you still with this man. I am in the same boat as you with the same age difference. I was wondering how that is working out for you. I really love being with the person i am with but we get so much grief from some people about the age difference.
I was wondering if we could talk maybe. I have fallen in love with a 29 year old man and I'm a younger looking and minded 56 year old woman. We have so much fun together and have slept together for over a month every Saturday night. We have not had sex but I really want to. Any advice from anyone would be appreciated.
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I am close with his family and don't want them to be disappointed in me but I really have become so attached to him. He is very mature for 29 and is loving and caring. I can't wait to see him again. We used to hang out one day a week now its getting like three nights a week. I want him with me every night.
He has not pushed me to have sex but massages me and we cuddle like lovers. I think if I gave sex with him it will take us both to the next level but it could do the opposite. Scared to take that leap of faith but I'm going to.
I think in the end age doesn't really matter any more. I'm 22 and i'm in love with a 16 year old. Now dating my bf who's of course 6 years younger than me, alot of people would question and compare.
Were waiting till he gets into his 20's but for a young guy he's so much more mature than guys my age. He treats me well and is able to understand me.
He is super stubborn and not exactly the most romantic guy but he does alot of sweet things to make up for it. He's the first guy that i can relax around. Guys that were older than me that went for me. I think over all don't let age stop you from getting someone that you truly love! Don't give up girls out there :]! I am going out with a younger guy who is I am Everyone says I look much younger than my age which is good and I am not attracted to many older guys anyway.
My problem is that the guy i am seeing thinks i am If he truly cares for you, it should not matter to him if your 45 or 50! Tell him your age, don't keep secrets at this point in your Relationship, honesty is the best policy! We share common interests in almost every aspect of our lives, we constantly talk and joke, and he is soooooooooooooooo kind to me all the time.
We also share extreme interest in sports and playing sports as well. We are both Christians. The thing is, he is 20 and in college. I am 15 and going into the 10th grade. Sometimes I wonder if I should try to pursue a relationship with him or just continue to be best friends. I am pretty convinced that he is at least hinting that he has some interest in me, but that might just be because I want for him to be hinting at that.
So, do you guys think he is too old for me? Do you think I should pursue him gradually over time until I am older and more sure of myself? Help please!!! I am 28 and dating a 22 year old guy. We started off as friends and I've always enjoyed his company. Five months ago things took a different turn when he held my hand. I was at a really good place in my life and it hit a spot. I mean I think I was genuinely touched and that it wasn't at all out of despair or loneliness.
From that moment on, we started spending a lot of time together. He is an earnest person, very committed to the relationship, and he more than adores me. The only problem though is that despite the fact that things are going extremely well between us, I have the deep conviction that it is bound to end. I find myself constantly mentally preparing myself for the ultimate break up. I would really love to believe in this, but the realist in me keeps shaking off all fantasies of a future together.
My story is a bit different. I blog and through my blogging I met a gentleman who could quite honestly be perfect for me. We have sent so many messages to each other and have video chatted on skype and since he lives about a four hour drive away, we've talked about making plans to visit. We have the same values and share a huge common interest in music, authors and art.
He is respectful and calls me 'dear one' and picks up on my bad vibes and tries to talk me out of them. The only issue is that he is 19 and I'm He's said that in no way does it bother him and that our shared values and connection mean more to him than my age ever will. I don't look my age at all. I hope we can meet one day soon and see what will happen. Also, "cradle robbing" runs in my family: my grandpa is 10 years older than my grandma happily married for 51 yearsmy mom is 3 years older than my dad together for 33 years and married for 30 and many of my cousins are dating or have dated much younger counterparts!
Here goes, I just turned 50 and tomorrow, I will be going out on a lunch date with a 31 year old, he's 19 years my junior! He started to casually hint that he would like to date an older woman as ladies his age want to get married and have children! Well he finally asked me out and tomorrow we are heading out for lunch! I do have to say that he is such a gentleman, very respectful, responsible, kind, etc!
I have never met a guy like him before and I have dated in my own age range for the past 9 years, so I would be foolish to pass this up, he would be a wonderful catch! Wish me luck!!! I am in my first relationship with a younger guy. He is 22, I am We started talking on an online dating site and hit off from there. We have quite a bit in common and he treats me so well. At first I wasn't feeling it because of the age difference and I usually go out with guys the same age as me or a couple of years older.
I even told a few of my friends that he was 5 years younger than me and they say that's not bad. No one really feels anyway towards it. He never cared from the beginning and after people had told me that itd not a big deal I began not caring about it either.
We are dating with the potencial of getting married eventually… God willing. There are somethings that drew me in connection with him, its that there is something abit sexy about dating a younger guy. O well, the point is too that we have the same goals and the same beliefs and the same respect for each other.
You could date someone 2, 3, 5 to 10 years older than you and he can treat you like crap or be immature. As long as my man is legal, mature, has his stuff together and treats me like a woman is suppose to be treated, that's all that matters. Im dating a 19 yr old im 41, im hiding this relationship i have a daughter his age don't know how my family will react to this!
My kids like him they just think we good friends. My boyfriend is 26 and I'm 30 and I love his drive in anything he does! I was married to a 32 year old and we grew apart due to our relationship being so boring… My boyfriend makes me feel so special and important and gives me all the attention I want. He's truly understanding and appreciates me. I wouldn't have it any other way! I'm 9years older than my bf I'm 33 and he is the most amazing man I've ever dated.
I'm his first official girlfriend and he's never dated someone for longer than a month. He is sweet kind and caring though after three months I feel like his interest may be waning he used to. I am worried that as I become more attached he is becoming more disinterested. Also he doesn't know what he wants e. I now know that my feelings for him are very deep and I fear I'm getting attached to someone who is going to burn me he may be gone for career training out of town for many months.
I am confused and already feeling the heartbreak but I Dont know what to do…just reaching out on this thread because it seems like there's a lot of women in somewhat similar predicaments who may be able to lend some advice or perspective.
Thanks in advance…. I really appreciate it…:s. I just turned 21 and my amazing man is 19 turning 20 in few months. We've been together for almost 2 years and I can tell I've never been and never will be this happy. Even though I've always thought that I would like to be with a man years older than me, I've never have had the chance God must know why. I've only dated 2 other guys, the first one was only few months my junior, and the other one 1 year older than me…… I can't even describe the way my guy makes me feel, he is just the sweetest man in the world.
I took the time to read ALL of your stories and it is really heartwarming reading stuff like this. Like you, I've had my doubts, but honestly i can't imagine anything better than what i have.
I'm 50 and my man is 22. We live together…. Our love is very strong. Awe that is a great story, I fell in love first site of my 30 yr old boytoy, he told me he loved me me the first date, I told him twice not to say that, but on tuesday I told him I love him, he says he still wants sex with other women, becacause he is scared of out age difference for the future, asked me to marry him, I told him no without a ring.
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I am scared to death. Same situation been together for 3 yrs when we met at a mutual job he worked the kitchen later on became manager. We talk about it then both cling to each other for dear life. I have just started going out with a year-old man.
I am a 36 year old woman dating a 21 year old man AMA. We met on the internet and have been dating for a year now. 68 comments. share .. For 25 years, I have conducted environmental research in the Amazon. AMA about the Amazon!. I'm 43 year old woman dating a 35 year old man? petrified My daughter is 25 and 21 and son 20 this is so hard I said no that we can't do this. Tinder just fucked a little boring but 21 year old man is older men what to have being unattached in a year-old man. We started dating a serious relationship .
I am a year-old woman. We both have kids from previous relationships and neither of us wants more, so there won't be that issue. It's early days but I think he's a keeper.
We both want a long-term commitment, and based on his demeanour and actions I believe he is emotionally capable of it. I am the happiest I've ever been! Its been so much fun, all we do is laugh and cut up; to me he is just perfection. The only thing that I find wrong with him is the fact that he cant be straight forward.
However, I just worry that I am getting old, and I need to settle down, start having babies and such and he is in his prime… Just makes you think about things, I would give anything to be 5 years younger. I love my 23 year old boyfriend.
I am 31 and honestly I wouldn't change anything about our relationship. We were meant for each other. He makes me feel like I've never felt, a love no one could ever take. I love you always Matthew. I have been seeing a French guy for two years, everything is perfect and very much in love. He is 26 and I am We don't look any different in age. He has just decided to end the relationship as his strict french parents won't approve if we take it further.
Are french parents really that draconian and are their children really that guided by them. He cried when he made the decision and said he will never forget me. It was all really sad. It would have been better if the relationship itself had run it's course. Im 23 and married to a man who is 21 and age has never been a issue for me as were both on the same pathhowever he has always had a mindset of fearing of being judged and cause I'm different cause of the age gap.
Any advice and help? I wouldn't worry about that age gap. I met him a little over 4 years ago…and we have been through a very emotional relationship. I have no children and very much one day hope I will be blessed with at least one. We lived together for a year and I kept bringing up kids in a very subtle way every once in awhile, three times to be exact, and each time he would make me cry by his responses.
We would break up get back together and break up then my sister found him on a dating website. I loved him soo much I didn't care. Then a day before our three year anniversary he dumped me through text saying he only had time for his kid and himself. I moved out that day before he got out of work.I’m 24 And My Husband Is 69 - EXTREME LOVE
Fact was he was too young then and after a 7 month breakup with no contact he begged me back. That was the most brutal 7 months in my life. We got back together he said he wants kids with me and eventually marriage…but I suspect he is changing his mind again.
But I can't help my dreams of being a mom someday when he has a blessing of an awesome kid himself. I feel sad that he has the most important thing I might never have if I stay. I'm not getting any younger and the years are running by quicker. I think age does matter when younger they are still trying to figure out what they want in life they have all the time in the world to change their mind.
I believe maybe once he is in his late 20's it may be different then but too late for me…. It just doesn't work for me right now.
Reading your stories though it comforts me knowing there are others that are older than their guys and are very happy. Maybe one day I will…. Okay older chickies question: lol were any of you nervous about showing your older body to a hot young sexy guy?? Cuz I am!! No cause if you have a nice body u shouldn't.
Be nervous n i really look young for 36 n my hubby 26 and is a good relationship we have n i dont have kids but we planning to …. I have started seeing and talking to a guy that is 20 and I'm 24 what should I do to keep him happy and in my life any advice? Im 36 going to 37 and my hubby is 26 we been together for a year and 5 months he will be 27 on feb. And we are the best couple eventhough all relationship are not perfect,he is so jealous with me that he be accusing me of cheating n things i really dont look my age i look way younger than my age….
So I was quite relieved to read this article because for a few weeks now I have been struggling with this new relationship I am in. I'll start by saying I have only ever dated a younger guy once and even then the difference wasn't even a year. Other than that the men in my life have always been older than I am. My last relationship of 4 years was with a man 13 years older than me.
Now I am dating a man 8 years younger. He is funny and smart, kind and caring. Basically he worships the ground I walk on and care for him very much!
I feel terrible because I'm worried what people will think, especially his family. My family won't even notice because my sister in law is 10 years older than my brother. Does anyone have any advice for a woman new to dating younger men? I have been dating younger guys for a long time and you give a youngher guy the chance and he with try to knock you up. I recently started a relationship with a 20 year old. With me being a month shy of 35 im very worried about our age difference, however he is so sweet and mature for his age.
He always wants to go out but Im scared of the looks that we may get in the street. I dont look ancient but he looks younger than 20 to me. I like him alot and our chemistry has been amazing since the moment we met.
Im new to this and the fact that my friends are calling me a cougar doesnt make me feel any better. I'm 15 and going to be 16 in 3 months but the guy a like is 13 and won't be 15 for another 10 months.
Is this wrong? He's really smart, mature for his age, and super kind and polite. He even helps out his mom with his younger brothers and sisters all the time! I only get to see him at church whenever he comes since we go to different schools and we live about 40 minutes from each other.
I feel like most young guys do worship the older woman and like her confidence, but when it comes to actual commitment marriagethe younger guy has no interest. At least, I'm told that the young guy wants someone his age or younger whom he can have babies with… What do you guys think? Bisexual guy here!
And randomly saw this even though it wasn't what I was searching for… I'm in a relationship with a guy 44 yrs older than me! Just gotta say, it's fantastic! I'm 21, he's 65 and funnily enough. He acts more like someone in their late 20's half the time. I'll admit that my attraction to him is partly looks yes, I like grey hair and the 'old man' lookhis personality he's lovely and the way he treats me. Having said that, there have been generational problems that have cropped up over time.
One thing is he has kids and grandkids, who we both know about us even though we haven't said. Hell, he hasn't come out to them yet but again, it's obvious they know. We've worked through those problems and I'm not into the whole partying thing and much prefer to stay in the house reading a book or watching a bit of tv. Also, these problems i've stated above are actually very trivial and while it's hard sometimes with the way I have to interact with him around people that don't officially know, it's not what makes the relationship and I care more about him than if people know.
I may not be getting what I'm trying to say across very well… Basically I'm with him because I love him. Not because of or despite any other reason. Also, the beginning of these types of relationships are generally the hardest i've found, more so for the older than the younger me being younger.
For them it's always been about what my family would think, is it serious, what about in the future. My parents know about him and although it surprised them at first, they're completely fine with it now. He's much more comfortable in the relationship now and we're soon to hit our anniversary. Make of that what you will. I'm just trying to say that while there are some inherent problems with these types of relationships, they can work.
It takes effort on both sides. Completely unnecessary and unhelpful comment. I appreciated reading his story and found some helpful insights for myself and my own similar situation. Thanks for your comment, I feel better about my relationship I am a female in love with a 30 yr old man, I am 53, he says he loves me, he told me first, but he still wants to have sex with other women. I'm 24, just met this gorgeous 19yr old guy. I'm a very mature girl my self, i've worked in different country's and always been able to support my self, moved out from my family when i was And then i meet this young hansome man with shoulderlength black hair and eyes so deep i fear i could drown in them falls into my lap, and i just want to be 19 again and let him kiss me forever.
OMG, what to do? He's a school boy and will be for at least 4 years more, but i can't stop thinking about him, and i know he wants me, for what i'm not sure, but he's very interested in getting to know me better and learning my personality traits.
I'm 26 and my girlfriend is 35 we're planning to have kids. The worst thing is her parents don't know about our relationship. She's scared to telling her mom because of our past relationship as learner and educator. Hello everyone. I have read through all the post here and I can relate. Only I am in deep trouble. I just turn 47 three weeks ago and over the week end I found out the I am pregnant with my first child.
I have been messing around with a 28 year old guy. We are I think just friends with Benni. We work together a Jo Ann fabric. We use birth control for sure every time we had sex. Plus I am 47 so my chances I thought were low of getting knocked up.
I have never really wanted to be a mother but now that I am with child my mine set I think has changes. I know that this is my only chance to become a mother so late in life.
I just not sure what to do or what to think. I'm 26 yet n month and 19 days 27 he is 20…and sometimes i'm full of doubts if thats right decision,bec for ex we didn't met today bec he has raid in World Of Warcraft or something like that…maybe i'm just too demanding we spend 2 days and 2 nights together doing nothing just lying hugging etc.
I'm about to be 26 next month. My best friend is 22 which is I don't care about age gap at all. My bf is about 2 years and 9 months younger. I round it up to 3 years. I don't know. He's I sort of dislike how it feels even though it doesn't seem to matter. All these reassurances I read only contribute to the awkward feeling that it's notable. I just want us to be regarded as the same age.
I hate to say it even matters but it bugs me a little. I sometimes wonder if he would ever expect more from me like I should have more experience, more knowledge. I don't think he cares but I am immature for my age. I imagine myself just a few years ago when I was his age and I'm not sure he would've liked me.
If we were both 23 I think he'd find me annoying lol. I am the same commentor from above. Although I feel odd even with my nearly 3 year gap with my younger boyfriend, I don't want to make any other woman feel insecure. The truth is you are desirable, beautiful women. I just sometimes dislike the thought that it's still considered more of a topic than having an older man.
If anything it makes sense because we will be caring for the man so he would be younger. I think it's a topic because women have more of a nurturing instinct that kicks in and we feel more like a maternal or sisterly caretaker. I seriously think that's it. She is 38 and just moved in to the building about 6 months ago.
She is in the middle of getting a divorce from her husband. We started sleeping together about three months ago on the weekends when her 2 kids went to there fathers for a weekend visit. Now we are sleeping together 5 nights out of seven. Bombshell over the weekend, YUP She's knocked up. Dudes, I am screwed big time. I don't want to have kids or a kids with her. I just wanted to screw until we moved on.
And now, I am going to be tied to her for the next 18 years. I asked her to abort it but she is like excited to be pregnant. We started dating a serious relationship kissing a 21, we've heard it endlessly for older women date men can see why age gap.
I wouldn't say 21 and 25 counts as older really, her brain just stopped developing hischas another four years of development to go. Anyway, I'm 48 dating a I dated a 22 year old kid when I was (no offense intended to you, but he was a kid) He was living for the first time on his own and didn't know. 25 year old guy dating 18 - Join the leader in footing services and find a in , i was a guy to date – in an 18 year old women my entire life. You guys explain what's going on the dating someone 18 and 21 because.
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